About

I'm not trying to be funny or clever.  I'm not writing a book.  I'm just writing.  This is my space to let off steam about all the ad hoc stuff that I find interesting.  As a mum to kids with special needs, it seems logical to try and raise awareness of what that is actually like, and the triumphs and troughs along the way.

About me:

Separated and living in Dublin with my three children.  My two brothers live in Wales and we visit them fairly regularly.  Job-hunting for the past three years.  Possibly a drama queen.

The rest of the cast:

Angel is my lovely 19 year old who more than anyone else has got me through with her love and support.  Our relationship has survived the teen years, family life with two special needs siblings, an awful marriage breakdown, having money, not having money, and other stuff I can't think of right now.

Sadly she doesn't like me taking her photograph, and nor does her brother.  This was taken  on the boat to Wales.



Aspie Boy (aka CD) is my 10 year with Asperger's Syndrome.  I love him so much but his difficulties regularly break my heart.


Smiley is 15 and has severe physical and intellectual disabilities, and a diagnosis of cerebral palsy and something else not yet identified, but she is beautiful, lively, responsive and the happiest child you will ever meet.  Her start in life could not have been more difficult, and she still can't walk or talk and struggles with toilet training.  But every morning she opens her eyes with a big smile for me and I just melt :)


Contact me at stilllookingforbluesky at gmail dot com.
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18 comments:

  1. OMG Angel is the image of you, gorgeous pic of all of them, you should be proud of yourself for raising them through all of the adversity you face. Keep your chin up xxxx

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  2. @Andra - Thanks for your lovely comment and support as always xxxx

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  3. Your kids look divine!
    I am half Welsh... my family live in Bangor!! :)

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  4. @Bright Side of Life - that's lovely :) Bangor is a beautiful place. Thank you for visiting and commenting x

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  5. Hi, I'm an adult with Aspergers and Dyslexia. I have two kids also on the spectrum. My son is 18 and my daughter is 11. I live in the UK and I am so pleased to have found your blog. Love and hugs. Lisa xx :)

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  6. fellow 'good friday' walkerApril 9, 2012 1:10 PM

    you should maybe rethink writing - you have a way with words and i think there is more than one good book waiting to be created - you've made a good start with your blog .. a bit like your recent hike .. maybe you didn't think you had it in you to travel so far - but you've got one stage of the wicklow way under your belt ..

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  7. Hello fellow 'good friday' walker and thank you for your lovely comment. I'm not sure that I have the patience to write a book: and I think I might find it a lonely occupation. Blogging is not like that :)

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  8. @Wonderfully Fi - Thank you so much, and thanks for popping by and commenting x

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  9. I "stumbled" across your blogg because of an google serach for something else, but now i HAVE to read it! Keep up the good work.

    From Silja from Norway( i work with children and adults with disabilities)

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  10. Thank you Silja, I hope you enjoy it x

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  11. Thank you, yes i really like your blogg! But i have to say, it makes me sad to see how big differens it is in politics, when it comes to diagnosed children, and adults for that matter, in our two contries. I live in a tiny village and i have to say , dissable pipole have many offers and many rights here- in my village and in my country!Keep on fihting for your children, maybe you can make a differens!

    Silja

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  12. Found you via Love that Max. What a beautiful family!

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  13. What a beautiful family! I am looking forward to reading about your adventures and trails together :)

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